there is a thought that ultimately drive me "you can have a decent job and a family at one time?". The answer would seem trivial and obvious, "Of course you do!", But what is the price to pay, in a world ruled by men who then spontaneously under certain probelmatiche, just do not get it! probably have always been cooked, ironed, cleaned their house and fail to understand that if I'm there with them 18 hours a day ....
1 - my house is not self-cleaning
2-Assuntina I did not find anything that makes me a mirror
3-my husband will be entitled to a mistress
Now, to explain every time, all these things (in I think legitimate) sounds less ridiculous than the ears of a man! things that seem silly, however, for you, your values, your priorities are not at all.
The result is that steps slacker because you do not want to work on Saturdays and Sundays!
but why?
This reflection comes from the request made to me at 7 pm on Saturday to introduce a customer the next day at 4 (dinner included).
tell the truth (let alone the union's demands), maybe if I had been alone, I'd also gone. I believe, however, have an obligation to the man I married, thinking about having a wife and not to live alone! Not
talk about my hypothetical future children for whom I feel compassion already!
carried an article that I was very heartened by Marina Terragni, a talented journalist who I happen to read about "I'm a woman."
A woman who works hard, after a long climb in his career he asks his boss to move to the side, that is "more flexible" a little '. Answer him: "The work is this, dear. Or so, or at home with the kids." But no! Not at all! The work is not that. This is the way people work (timing, methods, rules, male). Now that those in positions of men working there so many women, and women more often men, work can not be that. Women have always worked then, and they work much more than men. They will know how to do it well, even without meeting at eight o'clock in the evening. Another, an important journalist, tells me that half of the day she works at home, maybe even idle, because the Zen of housework clears the mind like little else in the world, and in his mind the ideas flowing. The other half of the day is then to the office, where, however, comes loaded with itself, a firm that has accumulated in his thoughts, able to resist the force of the "already thinking" men. I understand perfectly. The fact is that women work less well when their so-called "private" is kept out of the office door, when they fail to bring a little 'of their home, and in the final themselves. As for writing, for example, of which I practice: you can not make it to write things that much sense if you are not allowed to tell some "me", or if you're locked in an ugly room with air conditioning and photos Children hung attendees to waste your time - your sense of time-especially, playing video games and the other between meetings. You write very well, however, when you can stand next to the field of life, and those are things they want to be spontaneous, as small creatures that wish to pass through you. For example I'm writing this column after washing the heavy carpet that is now dripping in the sun on the terrace. The Cigarini dear friend Leah says that in the coming years, the politically important things to happen to women in the workplace. I think he's right.
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